yes, the one who LJBF'ed me after 6 months of huge investments, hot and cold behavior and limited reward from her side. At the time she told me she wasn't over her ex (of course after having benefitted of my time and effort) and that I was awesome and she always loved to think about me and her together (yes, words, only words...). At that time I said "**** it" and went NC, now I tested myself and... my "i don't give a ****" attitude annoyed her a lot, she quickly escaped without saying anything apart "I need to go, I've a urgent meeting". But come on! i was really polite and nice with my smile :cheer: .. as I would be with any other girl. Now I feel empowered, thanks guys, lot of awesome material here, Brad lessons helped me a lot
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
just bumped into my oneitis.. thanks Sosuave (especially Bradd80)
- Thread starter joker79
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Prodigy746
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I am sorry op but you dont make much sense.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't reply. She'll most likely start playing games again if you respond.joker79 said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Bradd is one of the few that gives really good and practical advice.