yes, the one who LJBF'ed me after 6 months of huge investments, hot and cold behavior and limited reward from her side. At the time she told me she wasn't over her ex (of course after having benefitted of my time and effort) and that I was awesome and she always loved to think about me and her together (yes, words, only words...). At that time I said "**** it" and went NC, now I tested myself and... my "i don't give a ****" attitude annoyed her a lot, she quickly escaped without saying anything apart "I need to go, I've a urgent meeting". But come on! i was really polite and nice with my smile :cheer: .. as I would be with any other girl. Now I feel empowered, thanks guys, lot of awesome material here, Brad lessons helped me a lot
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
just bumped into my oneitis.. thanks Sosuave (especially Bradd80)
- Thread starter joker79
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Prodigy746
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I am sorry op but you dont make much sense.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't reply. She'll most likely start playing games again if you respond.joker79 said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Bradd is one of the few that gives really good and practical advice.