yes, the one who LJBF'ed me after 6 months of huge investments, hot and cold behavior and limited reward from her side. At the time she told me she wasn't over her ex (of course after having benefitted of my time and effort) and that I was awesome and she always loved to think about me and her together (yes, words, only words...). At that time I said "**** it" and went NC, now I tested myself and... my "i don't give a ****" attitude annoyed her a lot, she quickly escaped without saying anything apart "I need to go, I've a urgent meeting". But come on! i was really polite and nice with my smile :cheer: .. as I would be with any other girl. Now I feel empowered, thanks guys, lot of awesome material here, Brad lessons helped me a lot
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
just bumped into my oneitis.. thanks Sosuave (especially Bradd80)
- Thread starter joker79
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Prodigy746
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I am sorry op but you dont make much sense.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't reply. She'll most likely start playing games again if you respond.joker79 said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Bradd is one of the few that gives really good and practical advice.