"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just broke up with LTR LDR

DJBilly

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I just broke up with a very serious 1 year LDR, LTR and we were in love, she couldn't take the distance and gave up, any tips of revving up my game again and forgetting about her completely?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Same thing happened to me less then a month ago. Just no Contact. Thats the best thing you can do.
 

EastWind

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For the forgetting part: there are lots of guides on here, the essence is to delete her from everything on the internet (IMs/Facebook/...), stash away things that remind you of her in a box in the attic, and don't contact her. Ever.

On a side note, I want to stress that you should take the lesson and never get into a LTR again. I've seen tons (literally) of LTRs amongst my friends (and had one myself) and they ALL go south. Really, ALL of them. It's not a relationship if you can't see each other at least a few times a week.
 

DJBilly

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I think what I have learned is no more LDR ever again, and no LTR for a very long time, this relationship taught me a lot of great things, but showed me a side of women that I am not trying to deal with now. Thanks for the replies
 

pdx1138

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DJBilly said:
I think what I have learned is no more LDR ever again
very wise.

get back into hobbies/activities you are passionate about but have not visited in awhile....that always helps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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