"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just broke up with LTR LDR

DJBilly

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I just broke up with a very serious 1 year LDR, LTR and we were in love, she couldn't take the distance and gave up, any tips of revving up my game again and forgetting about her completely?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Same thing happened to me less then a month ago. Just no Contact. Thats the best thing you can do.
 

EastWind

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For the forgetting part: there are lots of guides on here, the essence is to delete her from everything on the internet (IMs/Facebook/...), stash away things that remind you of her in a box in the attic, and don't contact her. Ever.

On a side note, I want to stress that you should take the lesson and never get into a LTR again. I've seen tons (literally) of LTRs amongst my friends (and had one myself) and they ALL go south. Really, ALL of them. It's not a relationship if you can't see each other at least a few times a week.
 

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I think what I have learned is no more LDR ever again, and no LTR for a very long time, this relationship taught me a lot of great things, but showed me a side of women that I am not trying to deal with now. Thanks for the replies
 

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DJBilly said:
I think what I have learned is no more LDR ever again
very wise.

get back into hobbies/activities you are passionate about but have not visited in awhile....that always helps.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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