“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJBilly

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I just broke up with a very serious 1 year LDR, LTR and we were in love, she couldn't take the distance and gave up, any tips of revving up my game again and forgetting about her completely?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Same thing happened to me less then a month ago. Just no Contact. Thats the best thing you can do.
 

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For the forgetting part: there are lots of guides on here, the essence is to delete her from everything on the internet (IMs/Facebook/...), stash away things that remind you of her in a box in the attic, and don't contact her. Ever.

On a side note, I want to stress that you should take the lesson and never get into a LTR again. I've seen tons (literally) of LTRs amongst my friends (and had one myself) and they ALL go south. Really, ALL of them. It's not a relationship if you can't see each other at least a few times a week.
 

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I think what I have learned is no more LDR ever again, and no LTR for a very long time, this relationship taught me a lot of great things, but showed me a side of women that I am not trying to deal with now. Thanks for the replies
 

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DJBilly said:
I think what I have learned is no more LDR ever again
very wise.

get back into hobbies/activities you are passionate about but have not visited in awhile....that always helps.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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