"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nan3109

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After you've had sex with a girl, and then later in the week she says she thinks it would be best if we were just friends, and then sometimes she thinks dating is fine, what would you guys do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your question is worded horribly. What I gather from what you're saying is that she said " I don't want to be an LTR but dating once in a while is ok". That's ******** for " Let's be **** buddies"
 
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If you nail her more than once and then she tells you she wants to "just be friends," you may need to read some books on how to give a good lay.
 
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Luveno hit it right on the mark..

But..

I have to add that if you didn't get that obvious ******** speak..I'm starting to get the feeling you might be having one-itis and wondering why would this woman turn you down for an LTR.

Is an LTR what you really want? Or, are you just putting her on a pedistal as a 'challenge'? The challenge being that your ego is wondering why she just wants FB status while you want something more.

Don't one-itis trip bro.
 
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She's not sure if she wants to be in a LTR with you. But it seems she wants to be friends with benefits kinda deal. She doesn't want to say that "FWB" phrase so she uses the "friends" phrase. For now if this is all you got, then take it and be open to other girls if you're going to FWB this gal (just keep it on the low.)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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