Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Just an angry call...

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Met a girl, great rapport, had a lot of fun together. Borderline AW, so I played hot/cold REAL hard.

I got into bed with her on friday, but she wasn't being easy to deal with (every time I'd try to do something to her, she'd push me away and act coy). So I put my clothes on, got up and left. I thought it would be the ultimate power move, and that she'd come CRAWLING back for more.
Maybe it was a bit unnecessary, but I really just wanted to go home (drunk, and had to work early).

Today she finally leaves a message on my phone... "I'd appreciate if you don't call my house or phone, I gave your CD to your AFC friend. Bye." Woah, didn't see that coming. Looks like SHE is wanting ME to do the crawling back. I'm probably the only guy to ever refuse sex from this chick, and I think it just blew her fragile feminine mind.

What's your appraisal, DJ's? I plan on calling her tommorrow, cool and calm, asking what that outburst was all about. This sounds like a major **** test...
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fukk that!

I don't know if you have the willpower, but I would cut ALL contact. Make her call you. If she dosen't, no great loss.
 
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Originally posted by ikkenai
I plan on calling her tommorrow, cool and calm, asking what that outburst was all about. This sounds like a major **** test...
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I think you are doing good. And think right. Do what you wanted to do: call her... and see what'll happen.
 
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The ultimate goal is to have her in the palm of my hand, not to lose her entirely. She's a AW of sorts, and therefore has a stubborn personality. She has huge IL prior to this.

Anyways, I'll call her, but I sure won't be blubbering for forgiveness. Have any of you guys done a takeaway, but have it end up making the girl dump or get extremely angry at you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hold off a while n the call. If you gain the power back cool

If you don't then give the number online to hundreds of guys. She'll really be happy a month from now when her phone is ringing off the hook from a bunch of drunk losers.

The key to pulling this prank? Wait at least a month or two after you last contact with her. She'll never know it was you.

Childish? Classless? Uncalled for?

Sure but FUN HELL YEAH!
 
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She's obviously an AW. She's truly offended that you wouldn't insist on fcking her that night, she tried to play hard and it backfired on her. Now she feels like if she pretends that she doesn't want to do anything with you you'll crawl back. if i were you I would next her and teach the sl*t a lesson.
 
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flame me if you'd like.. but what's AW? sorry. :(

personally i'd give it a week or so. then call and say hi. but i'm no master DJ, so *shrugs*

-JP
 
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Originally posted by Ricky
Childish? Classless? Uncalled for?

Sure but FUN HELL YEAH!
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Revenge is the domain of lameasses.

AW = Attention *****
 
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But revenge can be sweet!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't call her.

Move on.

If she doesn't call, you're just one psycho-biatch less. Which is a good thing
 
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Originally posted by Ricky
Hold off a while n the call. If you gain the power back cool

If you don't then give the number online to hundreds of guys. She'll really be happy a month from now when her phone is ringing off the hook from a bunch of drunk losers.

The key to pulling this prank? Wait at least a month or two after you last contact with her. She'll never know it was you.

Childish? Classless? Uncalled for?

Sure but FUN HELL YEAH!
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THAts THe SPiRIT! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Originally posted by HeartlessBtch
She's obviously an AW. She's truly offended that you wouldn't insist on fcking her that night, she tried to play hard and it backfired on her. Now she feels like if she pretends that she doesn't want to do anything with you you'll crawl back. if i were you I would next her and teach the sl*t a lesson.
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Or u could go back and **** her. Her IL is high enugh. AFter, lose all contact... Thatd be the ultimate.
 
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