"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just an angry call...

ikkenai

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Met a girl, great rapport, had a lot of fun together. Borderline AW, so I played hot/cold REAL hard.

I got into bed with her on friday, but she wasn't being easy to deal with (every time I'd try to do something to her, she'd push me away and act coy). So I put my clothes on, got up and left. I thought it would be the ultimate power move, and that she'd come CRAWLING back for more.
Maybe it was a bit unnecessary, but I really just wanted to go home (drunk, and had to work early).

Today she finally leaves a message on my phone... "I'd appreciate if you don't call my house or phone, I gave your CD to your AFC friend. Bye." Woah, didn't see that coming. Looks like SHE is wanting ME to do the crawling back. I'm probably the only guy to ever refuse sex from this chick, and I think it just blew her fragile feminine mind.

What's your appraisal, DJ's? I plan on calling her tommorrow, cool and calm, asking what that outburst was all about. This sounds like a major **** test...
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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fukk that!

I don't know if you have the willpower, but I would cut ALL contact. Make her call you. If she dosen't, no great loss.
 

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Originally posted by ikkenai
I plan on calling her tommorrow, cool and calm, asking what that outburst was all about. This sounds like a major **** test...
I think you are doing good. And think right. Do what you wanted to do: call her... and see what'll happen.
 

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The ultimate goal is to have her in the palm of my hand, not to lose her entirely. She's a AW of sorts, and therefore has a stubborn personality. She has huge IL prior to this.

Anyways, I'll call her, but I sure won't be blubbering for forgiveness. Have any of you guys done a takeaway, but have it end up making the girl dump or get extremely angry at you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hold off a while n the call. If you gain the power back cool

If you don't then give the number online to hundreds of guys. She'll really be happy a month from now when her phone is ringing off the hook from a bunch of drunk losers.

The key to pulling this prank? Wait at least a month or two after you last contact with her. She'll never know it was you.

Childish? Classless? Uncalled for?

Sure but FUN HELL YEAH!
 

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She's obviously an AW. She's truly offended that you wouldn't insist on fcking her that night, she tried to play hard and it backfired on her. Now she feels like if she pretends that she doesn't want to do anything with you you'll crawl back. if i were you I would next her and teach the sl*t a lesson.
 

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flame me if you'd like.. but what's AW? sorry. :(

personally i'd give it a week or so. then call and say hi. but i'm no master DJ, so *shrugs*

-JP
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
Childish? Classless? Uncalled for?

Sure but FUN HELL YEAH!
Revenge is the domain of lameasses.

AW = Attention *****
 

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But revenge can be sweet!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't call her.

Move on.

If she doesn't call, you're just one psycho-biatch less. Which is a good thing
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
Hold off a while n the call. If you gain the power back cool

If you don't then give the number online to hundreds of guys. She'll really be happy a month from now when her phone is ringing off the hook from a bunch of drunk losers.

The key to pulling this prank? Wait at least a month or two after you last contact with her. She'll never know it was you.

Childish? Classless? Uncalled for?

Sure but FUN HELL YEAH!
THAts THe SPiRIT! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Originally posted by HeartlessBtch
She's obviously an AW. She's truly offended that you wouldn't insist on fcking her that night, she tried to play hard and it backfired on her. Now she feels like if she pretends that she doesn't want to do anything with you you'll crawl back. if i were you I would next her and teach the sl*t a lesson.
Or u could go back and **** her. Her IL is high enugh. AFter, lose all contact... Thatd be the ultimate.
 
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