"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just a tip

Do you prefer doing pickups sober or "intoxicated"? Feel free to answer in the thread

  • Sober

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • "intoxicated"

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Total voters
    7

Sneevox

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This happened to me last night. I smoked and got really, really stoned... and I became anti-social.

Let's get to the tip.

You need to know who you become when you do certain things.

If you get really annoying when you drink, don't get too drunk. If you get super anti-social-philosophical-quiet-weird when you smoke, don't smoke too much. Just have a bit. Don't feel obligated to smoke.

Anyways, I ended up laughing my way out of social awkwardness by becoming friends with the host and then working my way through the group, but I got lucky on that one. When I smoke, I usually get super quiet and it freaks people out because I'm usually the most outgoing person in the group. I know who I am when I smoke.

You know? It's just a sort of thing to know. Maybe people you're around have to be a certain way when you smoke or drink for you to have a good time. Some people are like that. Smoking can be an intense thing.

I'm just saying, Don Juaning requires a lot of awareness of self. It comes from the inside. It's a thing of person, not of interperson.

I like a quote from Pythagoras that goes like so; Man know thyself, and thou shalt know the universe and God.

So you want to know women? They're certainly a part of the universe, right? Learn to know yourself.

Namaste
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VladPatton

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Once again, it's a control thing. Don't loose your shıt!
 
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