"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just a tip

Do you prefer doing pickups sober or "intoxicated"? Feel free to answer in the thread

  • Sober

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • "intoxicated"

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Total voters
    7

Sneevox

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This happened to me last night. I smoked and got really, really stoned... and I became anti-social.

Let's get to the tip.

You need to know who you become when you do certain things.

If you get really annoying when you drink, don't get too drunk. If you get super anti-social-philosophical-quiet-weird when you smoke, don't smoke too much. Just have a bit. Don't feel obligated to smoke.

Anyways, I ended up laughing my way out of social awkwardness by becoming friends with the host and then working my way through the group, but I got lucky on that one. When I smoke, I usually get super quiet and it freaks people out because I'm usually the most outgoing person in the group. I know who I am when I smoke.

You know? It's just a sort of thing to know. Maybe people you're around have to be a certain way when you smoke or drink for you to have a good time. Some people are like that. Smoking can be an intense thing.

I'm just saying, Don Juaning requires a lot of awareness of self. It comes from the inside. It's a thing of person, not of interperson.

I like a quote from Pythagoras that goes like so; Man know thyself, and thou shalt know the universe and God.

So you want to know women? They're certainly a part of the universe, right? Learn to know yourself.

Namaste
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VladPatton

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Once again, it's a control thing. Don't loose your shıt!
 
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