"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a tip

Do you prefer doing pickups sober or "intoxicated"? Feel free to answer in the thread

  • Sober

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • "intoxicated"

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Total voters
    7

Sneevox

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This happened to me last night. I smoked and got really, really stoned... and I became anti-social.

Let's get to the tip.

You need to know who you become when you do certain things.

If you get really annoying when you drink, don't get too drunk. If you get super anti-social-philosophical-quiet-weird when you smoke, don't smoke too much. Just have a bit. Don't feel obligated to smoke.

Anyways, I ended up laughing my way out of social awkwardness by becoming friends with the host and then working my way through the group, but I got lucky on that one. When I smoke, I usually get super quiet and it freaks people out because I'm usually the most outgoing person in the group. I know who I am when I smoke.

You know? It's just a sort of thing to know. Maybe people you're around have to be a certain way when you smoke or drink for you to have a good time. Some people are like that. Smoking can be an intense thing.

I'm just saying, Don Juaning requires a lot of awareness of self. It comes from the inside. It's a thing of person, not of interperson.

I like a quote from Pythagoras that goes like so; Man know thyself, and thou shalt know the universe and God.

So you want to know women? They're certainly a part of the universe, right? Learn to know yourself.

Namaste
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VladPatton

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Once again, it's a control thing. Don't loose your shıt!
 
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