"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just a tip

Do you prefer doing pickups sober or "intoxicated"? Feel free to answer in the thread

  • Sober

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • "intoxicated"

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Total voters
    7

Sneevox

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This happened to me last night. I smoked and got really, really stoned... and I became anti-social.

Let's get to the tip.

You need to know who you become when you do certain things.

If you get really annoying when you drink, don't get too drunk. If you get super anti-social-philosophical-quiet-weird when you smoke, don't smoke too much. Just have a bit. Don't feel obligated to smoke.

Anyways, I ended up laughing my way out of social awkwardness by becoming friends with the host and then working my way through the group, but I got lucky on that one. When I smoke, I usually get super quiet and it freaks people out because I'm usually the most outgoing person in the group. I know who I am when I smoke.

You know? It's just a sort of thing to know. Maybe people you're around have to be a certain way when you smoke or drink for you to have a good time. Some people are like that. Smoking can be an intense thing.

I'm just saying, Don Juaning requires a lot of awareness of self. It comes from the inside. It's a thing of person, not of interperson.

I like a quote from Pythagoras that goes like so; Man know thyself, and thou shalt know the universe and God.

So you want to know women? They're certainly a part of the universe, right? Learn to know yourself.

Namaste
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VladPatton

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Once again, it's a control thing. Don't loose your shıt!
 
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