I've been reading the forum for a while and thought I'd post about my recent situation. There's this hot chick I work with (although we rarely see each other as we're in different departments). I saw her walking down the hallway at work, as we walked past we made eye contact and smiled at each other. I think this happened twice. I thought it was a good sign, but the fact she looked at me and didn't look away meant she wasn't intimidated, so maybe it was just a friendly smile? Again, I rarely see her. Maybe once a week? And when I do, it's just walking past each other. We've smiled at each other a few times though. It's just hard to get an idea if it's more than that because we don't cross paths much.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Just a smile?
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