I've been reading the forum for a while and thought I'd post about my recent situation. There's this hot chick I work with (although we rarely see each other as we're in different departments). I saw her walking down the hallway at work, as we walked past we made eye contact and smiled at each other. I think this happened twice. I thought it was a good sign, but the fact she looked at me and didn't look away meant she wasn't intimidated, so maybe it was just a friendly smile? Again, I rarely see her. Maybe once a week? And when I do, it's just walking past each other. We've smiled at each other a few times though. It's just hard to get an idea if it's more than that because we don't cross paths much.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just a smile?
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