I've been reading the forum for a while and thought I'd post about my recent situation. There's this hot chick I work with (although we rarely see each other as we're in different departments). I saw her walking down the hallway at work, as we walked past we made eye contact and smiled at each other. I think this happened twice. I thought it was a good sign, but the fact she looked at me and didn't look away meant she wasn't intimidated, so maybe it was just a friendly smile? Again, I rarely see her. Maybe once a week? And when I do, it's just walking past each other. We've smiled at each other a few times though. It's just hard to get an idea if it's more than that because we don't cross paths much.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Just a smile?
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