slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Which is easier:
Just getting laid
or
Getting a girlfriend / relationship?
Just getting laid
or
Getting a girlfriend / relationship?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just a random question.
- Thread starter slitherjef
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maybe, it's just the city I live in but getting into a relationship just doesn't happen. All the decent people my age are in college in a different city and the ones left usually don't get into relationships until them getting laid all the time gets them pregnant.
backseatjuan
Banned
2nd..... And just as there are good lays there are good and bad relationships. Try to find the one that is right.
zekko
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Getting laid is easier. All you have to do to get laid is find a slvtty girl. And from my observation, there is no shortage of those.
Also, if you get into a relationship, you're going to get laid.
If you get laid, you're not necessarily going to get into a relationship.
Also, if you get into a relationship, you're going to get laid.
If you get laid, you're not necessarily going to get into a relationship.
Mike32ct
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Neither is "easy."
While looks always matter, her looks requirements are higher for a quick lay than a boyfriend.
So, of the two, I would say a relationship is slightly easier to get than a quick no strings lay.
While looks always matter, her looks requirements are higher for a quick lay than a boyfriend.
So, of the two, I would say a relationship is slightly easier to get than a quick no strings lay.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.