slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Which is easier:
Just getting laid
or
Getting a girlfriend / relationship?
Just getting laid
or
Getting a girlfriend / relationship?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just a random question.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maybe, it's just the city I live in but getting into a relationship just doesn't happen. All the decent people my age are in college in a different city and the ones left usually don't get into relationships until them getting laid all the time gets them pregnant.
backseatjuan
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2nd..... And just as there are good lays there are good and bad relationships. Try to find the one that is right.
zekko
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Getting laid is easier. All you have to do to get laid is find a slvtty girl. And from my observation, there is no shortage of those.
Also, if you get into a relationship, you're going to get laid.
If you get laid, you're not necessarily going to get into a relationship.
Also, if you get into a relationship, you're going to get laid.
If you get laid, you're not necessarily going to get into a relationship.
Mike32ct
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Neither is "easy."
While looks always matter, her looks requirements are higher for a quick lay than a boyfriend.
So, of the two, I would say a relationship is slightly easier to get than a quick no strings lay.
While looks always matter, her looks requirements are higher for a quick lay than a boyfriend.
So, of the two, I would say a relationship is slightly easier to get than a quick no strings lay.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.