slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Which is easier:
Just getting laid
or
Getting a girlfriend / relationship?
Just getting laid
or
Getting a girlfriend / relationship?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Just a random question.
- Thread starter slitherjef
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maybe, it's just the city I live in but getting into a relationship just doesn't happen. All the decent people my age are in college in a different city and the ones left usually don't get into relationships until them getting laid all the time gets them pregnant.
backseatjuan
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2nd..... And just as there are good lays there are good and bad relationships. Try to find the one that is right.
zekko
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Getting laid is easier. All you have to do to get laid is find a slvtty girl. And from my observation, there is no shortage of those.
Also, if you get into a relationship, you're going to get laid.
If you get laid, you're not necessarily going to get into a relationship.
Also, if you get into a relationship, you're going to get laid.
If you get laid, you're not necessarily going to get into a relationship.
Mike32ct
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Neither is "easy."
While looks always matter, her looks requirements are higher for a quick lay than a boyfriend.
So, of the two, I would say a relationship is slightly easier to get than a quick no strings lay.
While looks always matter, her looks requirements are higher for a quick lay than a boyfriend.
So, of the two, I would say a relationship is slightly easier to get than a quick no strings lay.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.