slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Which is easier:
Just getting laid
or
Getting a girlfriend / relationship?
Just getting laid
or
Getting a girlfriend / relationship?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Just a random question.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maybe, it's just the city I live in but getting into a relationship just doesn't happen. All the decent people my age are in college in a different city and the ones left usually don't get into relationships until them getting laid all the time gets them pregnant.
backseatjuan
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2nd..... And just as there are good lays there are good and bad relationships. Try to find the one that is right.
zekko
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Getting laid is easier. All you have to do to get laid is find a slvtty girl. And from my observation, there is no shortage of those.
Also, if you get into a relationship, you're going to get laid.
If you get laid, you're not necessarily going to get into a relationship.
Also, if you get into a relationship, you're going to get laid.
If you get laid, you're not necessarily going to get into a relationship.
Mike32ct
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Neither is "easy."
While looks always matter, her looks requirements are higher for a quick lay than a boyfriend.
So, of the two, I would say a relationship is slightly easier to get than a quick no strings lay.
While looks always matter, her looks requirements are higher for a quick lay than a boyfriend.
So, of the two, I would say a relationship is slightly easier to get than a quick no strings lay.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.