Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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just a quick yes or no question

Uncle Matt

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met a girl who worked in a local bank. i think i have a chance after a few encouters. decide to go for it next time i'm in there.
found she has left the branch :(
i know where she works now, question is, do i go to this new bank to ask her out?
is this creepy stalker behavior :nervous:
or is driving an hour to go pay your credit card bill and ask the girl out romantic?

i can't decide.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pingpongz

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Just go for it.. If she thinks you're a stalker big deal, you can just move on to the next one.
If you dont approach you will never know ;)
 

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i'm not sure women liked to be hit on whilst they are working

i have 3 examples.

a girl at work got asked for her number, she didnt like it
a different girl at different job, some guys were flirting with her, so didn't like it either
and another girl, guys were flirting, she didnt' like it

either the guys had no game, or just weren't attractive,

but there you go, 3 examples
 

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Just walk up to her and be honest and say something like

"Hey, didn't you used to work at such and such?"

she'll say blah blah blah yeh yeh

"Yeh ive seen you in there a couple times... My names "---" fancy going for a drink sometime?"

Simple.
 

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Just walk in to the new branch and make a joke out of it. Make it like she is following you.

Ask her, are you stalking me?

Do you work for the IRS and are tracking all my financial transactions?

A million ways to play that one off

Only problem with a bank chick, is she has access to your account info......so hopefully you have some scratch in the bank, or she wont want your broke azz
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uncle Matt

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hahaha. yeah i got a bit of money in there.

think i'll do it. it will be a nice drive if nothing else!

cheers lads.
 
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