"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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just a quick yes or no question

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met a girl who worked in a local bank. i think i have a chance after a few encouters. decide to go for it next time i'm in there.
found she has left the branch :(
i know where she works now, question is, do i go to this new bank to ask her out?
is this creepy stalker behavior :nervous:
or is driving an hour to go pay your credit card bill and ask the girl out romantic?

i can't decide.

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just go for it.. If she thinks you're a stalker big deal, you can just move on to the next one.
If you dont approach you will never know ;)
 
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i'm not sure women liked to be hit on whilst they are working

i have 3 examples.

a girl at work got asked for her number, she didnt like it
a different girl at different job, some guys were flirting with her, so didn't like it either
and another girl, guys were flirting, she didnt' like it

either the guys had no game, or just weren't attractive,

but there you go, 3 examples
 
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Just walk up to her and be honest and say something like

"Hey, didn't you used to work at such and such?"

she'll say blah blah blah yeh yeh

"Yeh ive seen you in there a couple times... My names "---" fancy going for a drink sometime?"

Simple.
 
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Just walk in to the new branch and make a joke out of it. Make it like she is following you.

Ask her, are you stalking me?

Do you work for the IRS and are tracking all my financial transactions?

A million ways to play that one off

Only problem with a bank chick, is she has access to your account info......so hopefully you have some scratch in the bank, or she wont want your broke azz
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hahaha. yeah i got a bit of money in there.

think i'll do it. it will be a nice drive if nothing else!

cheers lads.
 
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