"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just a quick yes or no question

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met a girl who worked in a local bank. i think i have a chance after a few encouters. decide to go for it next time i'm in there.
found she has left the branch :(
i know where she works now, question is, do i go to this new bank to ask her out?
is this creepy stalker behavior :nervous:
or is driving an hour to go pay your credit card bill and ask the girl out romantic?

i can't decide.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just go for it.. If she thinks you're a stalker big deal, you can just move on to the next one.
If you dont approach you will never know ;)
 
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i'm not sure women liked to be hit on whilst they are working

i have 3 examples.

a girl at work got asked for her number, she didnt like it
a different girl at different job, some guys were flirting with her, so didn't like it either
and another girl, guys were flirting, she didnt' like it

either the guys had no game, or just weren't attractive,

but there you go, 3 examples
 
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Just walk up to her and be honest and say something like

"Hey, didn't you used to work at such and such?"

she'll say blah blah blah yeh yeh

"Yeh ive seen you in there a couple times... My names "---" fancy going for a drink sometime?"

Simple.
 
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Just walk in to the new branch and make a joke out of it. Make it like she is following you.

Ask her, are you stalking me?

Do you work for the IRS and are tracking all my financial transactions?

A million ways to play that one off

Only problem with a bank chick, is she has access to your account info......so hopefully you have some scratch in the bank, or she wont want your broke azz
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hahaha. yeah i got a bit of money in there.

think i'll do it. it will be a nice drive if nothing else!

cheers lads.
 
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