"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just a quick field report - Pedestal chick

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I was at a club last night, and there was this HB8 by the bar, with guys flocked all over her.

when the guys left, I went up to her and said in a friiendly tone, "Hey! Hows it going?"

she just looked me up and down with a "why the hell are you talking to me?" attitude and didnt say ONE WORD

I then said "Great! maybe if you can develop a personality in the next 5 minutes, I might come back"

she gave me this look of SHOCK! like no guy would ever say that to her, and I walked away and joined my friends again

a few seconds later she comes up behind me, and just bumps in to me and stands there, still doesnt say a word, I just looked at her

turned back around, and continued talking with my friends

I could have probably gotten her #, but her attitude was just too hostile and arrogant for my taste

but it was a classic case of knocking a HB off her pedestal by minimizing the importance of her looks, and qualifying her personality

DONT TAKE THIS SH1T FROM ANY WOMEN FELLAS!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lol nice man!
 
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I would probably have given a "Have you got one yet" when she came back and played some more with her, but nice =)
 
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I really think that kind of arrogance is a turn off. I am a very friendly guy. In clubs, I say hi to everyone and try to make friends with everyone there (its also great social proof)

That kind of attitude from a girl is uncalled for in my book. You are in a club, someone walks up to you and says a friendly greeting, there is no reason to act like your pvssy is gold. Im sure it was a sh1t test/game she was playing.

but I wasnt having any of it. I think more guys need to step up to snooty women in clubs and let them KNOW that while they may be hot, they really need to work their personality (i.e. show them that they are just another worthless peice of meat unless they can show some value to you)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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