"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just a quick field report - Pedestal chick

ManOMan

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I was at a club last night, and there was this HB8 by the bar, with guys flocked all over her.

when the guys left, I went up to her and said in a friiendly tone, "Hey! Hows it going?"

she just looked me up and down with a "why the hell are you talking to me?" attitude and didnt say ONE WORD

I then said "Great! maybe if you can develop a personality in the next 5 minutes, I might come back"

she gave me this look of SHOCK! like no guy would ever say that to her, and I walked away and joined my friends again

a few seconds later she comes up behind me, and just bumps in to me and stands there, still doesnt say a word, I just looked at her

turned back around, and continued talking with my friends

I could have probably gotten her #, but her attitude was just too hostile and arrogant for my taste

but it was a classic case of knocking a HB off her pedestal by minimizing the importance of her looks, and qualifying her personality

DONT TAKE THIS SH1T FROM ANY WOMEN FELLAS!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Julian

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Lol nice man!
 

Kineti[C]harm

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I would probably have given a "Have you got one yet" when she came back and played some more with her, but nice =)
 

ManOMan

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I really think that kind of arrogance is a turn off. I am a very friendly guy. In clubs, I say hi to everyone and try to make friends with everyone there (its also great social proof)

That kind of attitude from a girl is uncalled for in my book. You are in a club, someone walks up to you and says a friendly greeting, there is no reason to act like your pvssy is gold. Im sure it was a sh1t test/game she was playing.

but I wasnt having any of it. I think more guys need to step up to snooty women in clubs and let them KNOW that while they may be hot, they really need to work their personality (i.e. show them that they are just another worthless peice of meat unless they can show some value to you)
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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