"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey guys, Hows life?

Straight to business...

Anyway, Theres this girl i know who keeps webshots with captions up on her homepage...I go there about a week ago, and see that one of the pictures, which was taken by her friend...

(I used to be 'familiar' with her, but we ended badly 3 months ago upon her assuming that we were exclusive and me having no idea that we were, and me hooking up with another girl :confused: ) - it was one of those situations where i missed obvious come-ons and such from her (kickin' myself)

...and dedicated to me had a changed caption. Needless to say the caption was changed to something negative towards me. I am wondering as to why, even now (3 months of no contact) she decides to do such a thing. She knows i would see it... so is she still thinking about me on occassion or something? (stalker:p ) or is she doing it for attention? or what?

Im just asking to satisfy my curiousity.:)

Much Appreciated...
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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why dont you just ask her?
 
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paraguayandj

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what's the website?
I just love when people talk sh*t about their ex:D
 
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i would do that layla, chances are tho if i called she wouldnt answer on purpose, or if I IM'd her she wouldnt answer either... plus doing that would just give her exactly what she may want..

thats why i asked:)

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I must also add that even now, i ocassionally have thoughts of calling her up and apologizing for what i did, because i never actually did... is that normal? and if i did apologize would it really even matter? Let me know

Much appreciated..
 
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