"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Walking Anomaly

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Hey guys, Hows life?

Straight to business...

Anyway, Theres this girl i know who keeps webshots with captions up on her homepage...I go there about a week ago, and see that one of the pictures, which was taken by her friend...

(I used to be 'familiar' with her, but we ended badly 3 months ago upon her assuming that we were exclusive and me having no idea that we were, and me hooking up with another girl :confused: ) - it was one of those situations where i missed obvious come-ons and such from her (kickin' myself)

...and dedicated to me had a changed caption. Needless to say the caption was changed to something negative towards me. I am wondering as to why, even now (3 months of no contact) she decides to do such a thing. She knows i would see it... so is she still thinking about me on occassion or something? (stalker:p ) or is she doing it for attention? or what?

Im just asking to satisfy my curiousity.:)

Much Appreciated...
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Layla

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why dont you just ask her?
 

paraguayandj

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what's the website?
I just love when people talk sh*t about their ex:D
 

Walking Anomaly

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i would do that layla, chances are tho if i called she wouldnt answer on purpose, or if I IM'd her she wouldnt answer either... plus doing that would just give her exactly what she may want..

thats why i asked:)

Anyone else?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I must also add that even now, i ocassionally have thoughts of calling her up and apologizing for what i did, because i never actually did... is that normal? and if i did apologize would it really even matter? Let me know

Much appreciated..
 
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