"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey guys, Hows life?

Straight to business...

Anyway, Theres this girl i know who keeps webshots with captions up on her homepage...I go there about a week ago, and see that one of the pictures, which was taken by her friend...

(I used to be 'familiar' with her, but we ended badly 3 months ago upon her assuming that we were exclusive and me having no idea that we were, and me hooking up with another girl :confused: ) - it was one of those situations where i missed obvious come-ons and such from her (kickin' myself)

...and dedicated to me had a changed caption. Needless to say the caption was changed to something negative towards me. I am wondering as to why, even now (3 months of no contact) she decides to do such a thing. She knows i would see it... so is she still thinking about me on occassion or something? (stalker:p ) or is she doing it for attention? or what?

Im just asking to satisfy my curiousity.:)

Much Appreciated...
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why dont you just ask her?
 
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what's the website?
I just love when people talk sh*t about their ex:D
 
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i would do that layla, chances are tho if i called she wouldnt answer on purpose, or if I IM'd her she wouldnt answer either... plus doing that would just give her exactly what she may want..

thats why i asked:)

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I must also add that even now, i ocassionally have thoughts of calling her up and apologizing for what i did, because i never actually did... is that normal? and if i did apologize would it really even matter? Let me know

Much appreciated..
 
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