"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey guys, Hows life?

Straight to business...

Anyway, Theres this girl i know who keeps webshots with captions up on her homepage...I go there about a week ago, and see that one of the pictures, which was taken by her friend...

(I used to be 'familiar' with her, but we ended badly 3 months ago upon her assuming that we were exclusive and me having no idea that we were, and me hooking up with another girl :confused: ) - it was one of those situations where i missed obvious come-ons and such from her (kickin' myself)

...and dedicated to me had a changed caption. Needless to say the caption was changed to something negative towards me. I am wondering as to why, even now (3 months of no contact) she decides to do such a thing. She knows i would see it... so is she still thinking about me on occassion or something? (stalker:p ) or is she doing it for attention? or what?

Im just asking to satisfy my curiousity.:)

Much Appreciated...
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why dont you just ask her?
 
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what's the website?
I just love when people talk sh*t about their ex:D
 
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i would do that layla, chances are tho if i called she wouldnt answer on purpose, or if I IM'd her she wouldnt answer either... plus doing that would just give her exactly what she may want..

thats why i asked:)

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I must also add that even now, i ocassionally have thoughts of calling her up and apologizing for what i did, because i never actually did... is that normal? and if i did apologize would it really even matter? Let me know

Much appreciated..
 
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