"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just a Idea for Picking up in Clubs..

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Ok guys ive done my fair share of clubbing,and have come to the conclusion its best to get straight to the point,Im a pretty good looking guy and get attention so instead of wasting time talking, which you cant hear each other anyway ,i was thinking applying a new tactic something like Hey ill give you my number give me a call sometime ? if there keen they will ,you have nothing to lose ? unless anyone has any better way to word it around ,what do you guys think ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i think when you give your # to the chicks, you're giving away your power; i don't think the chick will call you; instead just said let me get your number.
 

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Yeah few of my friends have done it with success,you think going straight into it by asking them let me get your number is better ? or throw in hey i love the way u dance can i get your number ? etc etc
 
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