"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a Idea for Picking up in Clubs..

Anfz

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Ok guys ive done my fair share of clubbing,and have come to the conclusion its best to get straight to the point,Im a pretty good looking guy and get attention so instead of wasting time talking, which you cant hear each other anyway ,i was thinking applying a new tactic something like Hey ill give you my number give me a call sometime ? if there keen they will ,you have nothing to lose ? unless anyone has any better way to word it around ,what do you guys think ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i think when you give your # to the chicks, you're giving away your power; i don't think the chick will call you; instead just said let me get your number.
 

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Yeah few of my friends have done it with success,you think going straight into it by asking them let me get your number is better ? or throw in hey i love the way u dance can i get your number ? etc etc
 
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