"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just a Idea for Picking up in Clubs..

Anfz

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Ok guys ive done my fair share of clubbing,and have come to the conclusion its best to get straight to the point,Im a pretty good looking guy and get attention so instead of wasting time talking, which you cant hear each other anyway ,i was thinking applying a new tactic something like Hey ill give you my number give me a call sometime ? if there keen they will ,you have nothing to lose ? unless anyone has any better way to word it around ,what do you guys think ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i think when you give your # to the chicks, you're giving away your power; i don't think the chick will call you; instead just said let me get your number.
 

Anfz

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Yeah few of my friends have done it with success,you think going straight into it by asking them let me get your number is better ? or throw in hey i love the way u dance can i get your number ? etc etc
 
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