"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just a fling? What to say...

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Belgian_Crab

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Sup...so ive been seeing this chick for about 4 weeks, and lately she has just shut out...like ignoring me in public (at parties) but real affectionate in private...she's pretty big into politics, so i thought the election roughed her up a bit, but i think the reason she avoids me in public is because she doesnt want a relationship at the moment, and she didnt want one from the get-go. I kinda gathered it from different sources, i think her best friend even said something liek that..but i was drunk so i might be wrong.
We're gonna talk about it tomorrow, any advice on my attitude, or what i should say...there is still something between us, but as of right now she doesnt want to commit....

so yea, what do you guyz think i should say, or how should i approach it attitude wise...

thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flip the situation tell her you just want to be friends. If its just a fling why do you care?

-Grey Fox
 
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no its a fling for her it seems, i would have wanted it to go on but im not gonna chase something that isnt there...ur right ill just flip it....that sounds like a plan
 
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yeah, be a man and just tell her. I bet she'll want your sexing by the end of the month haha
 
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Originally posted by Belgian_Crab
Sup...so ive been seeing this chick for about 4 weeks, and lately she has just shut out...like ignoring me in public (at parties) but real affectionate in private...
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What is your problem here??? You have the best of both worlds my man! A chick who will get with you in private but otherwise leaves you alone... leaving you free to chase other (better) women. She is practice and a semen receptacle, nothing more.

I wonder why some people around here want to "get things out in the open", if you are getting some without any commitment, say thanks and leave it at that... Unless her name is Lucy Pinder :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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