"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just a fling? What to say...

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Sup...so ive been seeing this chick for about 4 weeks, and lately she has just shut out...like ignoring me in public (at parties) but real affectionate in private...she's pretty big into politics, so i thought the election roughed her up a bit, but i think the reason she avoids me in public is because she doesnt want a relationship at the moment, and she didnt want one from the get-go. I kinda gathered it from different sources, i think her best friend even said something liek that..but i was drunk so i might be wrong.
We're gonna talk about it tomorrow, any advice on my attitude, or what i should say...there is still something between us, but as of right now she doesnt want to commit....

so yea, what do you guyz think i should say, or how should i approach it attitude wise...

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Flip the situation tell her you just want to be friends. If its just a fling why do you care?

-Grey Fox
 
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no its a fling for her it seems, i would have wanted it to go on but im not gonna chase something that isnt there...ur right ill just flip it....that sounds like a plan
 
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yeah, be a man and just tell her. I bet she'll want your sexing by the end of the month haha
 
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Originally posted by Belgian_Crab
Sup...so ive been seeing this chick for about 4 weeks, and lately she has just shut out...like ignoring me in public (at parties) but real affectionate in private...
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What is your problem here??? You have the best of both worlds my man! A chick who will get with you in private but otherwise leaves you alone... leaving you free to chase other (better) women. She is practice and a semen receptacle, nothing more.

I wonder why some people around here want to "get things out in the open", if you are getting some without any commitment, say thanks and leave it at that... Unless her name is Lucy Pinder :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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