"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just a fling? What to say...

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Sup...so ive been seeing this chick for about 4 weeks, and lately she has just shut out...like ignoring me in public (at parties) but real affectionate in private...she's pretty big into politics, so i thought the election roughed her up a bit, but i think the reason she avoids me in public is because she doesnt want a relationship at the moment, and she didnt want one from the get-go. I kinda gathered it from different sources, i think her best friend even said something liek that..but i was drunk so i might be wrong.
We're gonna talk about it tomorrow, any advice on my attitude, or what i should say...there is still something between us, but as of right now she doesnt want to commit....

so yea, what do you guyz think i should say, or how should i approach it attitude wise...

thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flip the situation tell her you just want to be friends. If its just a fling why do you care?

-Grey Fox
 
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no its a fling for her it seems, i would have wanted it to go on but im not gonna chase something that isnt there...ur right ill just flip it....that sounds like a plan
 
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yeah, be a man and just tell her. I bet she'll want your sexing by the end of the month haha
 
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Originally posted by Belgian_Crab
Sup...so ive been seeing this chick for about 4 weeks, and lately she has just shut out...like ignoring me in public (at parties) but real affectionate in private...
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What is your problem here??? You have the best of both worlds my man! A chick who will get with you in private but otherwise leaves you alone... leaving you free to chase other (better) women. She is practice and a semen receptacle, nothing more.

I wonder why some people around here want to "get things out in the open", if you are getting some without any commitment, say thanks and leave it at that... Unless her name is Lucy Pinder :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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