just a bad experience?

[Neon Owl]

I suppose I have a bit of performance anxiety from a bad experience.
Long story short it involved this strange 39 year old woman I met on the net and didn't get it up due to my nervousness and me being weirded out by the whole situation (she showed me a fairy tale porn book, told me I look like her brother, asked me if I knew what 'stop' meant while we were on her bed, told me she was on her period).
I also told her I was a virgin for some stupid reason which added to her dominance over me. Kinda felt like she was doing me a favour or something (she actaually said if she ever met a virgin she would "help them out").
She was rubbing my c0ck furiously trying to get me hard and the sensation was just too different to what I've been used to all these years, it just wasn't doing anything for me. She still has all her clothes on at this point and I'm totally naked for some reason lmao.
I think she wanted me to tear her clothes off etc. but I was an ultimate afc champion and that never entered my mind.

Basically I didn't get it up and it totally turned her off me at that point so I just left. While I was getting ready to leave she told me she had been abused as a child and that's why she's a sex addict which I suppose explains some of the odd things I picked up.

This has left me wondering what will I do if that happens next time and I'm a little worried.

I'm going to make sure I'm in a much more dominant frame next time so this doesn't happen again.

So, say you're getting hot and heavy with a woman. Would it be considered odd to start rubbing your d1ck before you actually start going at it to help in getting hard?
Would this weird her out?
Or am I just worrying about nothing and this was simply due to the strange situation I was in?

 

[The Piano Master]

If she's a sex addict, I doubt it would have been bad to jerk yourself hard. But I wouldn't recommend it for future encounters. Get the girl to suck it, it will relax you and you'll get hard.

Also, don't ever use that "I'm a virgin" line again.

 

[Neon Owl]

Yea I don't plan on letting that slip again, don't worry.

Thing is she didn't really give me much chance to get hard. After 20 seconds or so of rubbing my c0ck she went ultra weird on me and looked like I'd just dropped a turd or something.

Is it really cool to get a girl to suck your limp d1ck? Wouldn't she expect you to be hard pretty much straight away?

This chick really screwed with my head I'm sure you can tell...

 

[The Piano Master]

Yea I don't plan on letting that slip again, don't worry.

Thing is she didn't really give me much chance to get hard. After 20 seconds or so of rubbing my c0ck she went ultra weird on me and looked like I'd just dropped a turd or something.

Is it really cool to get a girl to suck your limp d1ck? Wouldn't she expect you to be hard pretty much straight away?

This chick really screwed with my head I'm sure you can tell...

You were totally limp or a little hard but not all the way up? Either way, if she was a sex addict, she would have sucked that thing hard. Most girls would too.

 

[Neon Owl]

I was totally limp and only just starting to get hard when she stopped and got all weird.

When you say "she would've sucked that thing hard" you mean even if it was soft or only hard?

She seemed to be freaked out that I wasn't getting hard quickly. I told her it'd help if she took her clothes off but she wasn't having it...