I suppose I have a bit of performance anxiety from a bad experience.
Long story short it involved this strange 39 year old woman I met on the net and didn't get it up due to my nervousness and me being weirded out by the whole situation (she showed me a fairy tale porn book, told me I look like her brother, asked me if I knew what 'stop' meant while we were on her bed, told me she was on her period).
I also told her I was a virgin for some stupid reason which added to her dominance over me. Kinda felt like she was doing me a favour or something (she actaually said if she ever met a virgin she would "help them out").
She was rubbing my c0ck furiously trying to get me hard and the sensation was just too different to what I've been used to all these years, it just wasn't doing anything for me. She still has all her clothes on at this point and I'm totally naked for some reason lmao.
I think she wanted me to tear her clothes off etc. but I was an ultimate afc champion and that never entered my mind.
Basically I didn't get it up and it totally turned her off me at that point so I just left. While I was getting ready to leave she told me she had been abused as a child and that's why she's a sex addict which I suppose explains some of the odd things I picked up.
This has left me wondering what will I do if that happens next time and I'm a little worried.
I'm going to make sure I'm in a much more dominant frame next time so this doesn't happen again.
So, say you're getting hot and heavy with a woman. Would it be considered odd to start rubbing your d1ck before you actually start going at it to help in getting hard?
Would this weird her out?
Or am I just worrying about nothing and this was simply due to the strange situation I was in?
Long story short it involved this strange 39 year old woman I met on the net and didn't get it up due to my nervousness and me being weirded out by the whole situation (she showed me a fairy tale porn book, told me I look like her brother, asked me if I knew what 'stop' meant while we were on her bed, told me she was on her period).
I also told her I was a virgin for some stupid reason which added to her dominance over me. Kinda felt like she was doing me a favour or something (she actaually said if she ever met a virgin she would "help them out").
She was rubbing my c0ck furiously trying to get me hard and the sensation was just too different to what I've been used to all these years, it just wasn't doing anything for me. She still has all her clothes on at this point and I'm totally naked for some reason lmao.
I think she wanted me to tear her clothes off etc. but I was an ultimate afc champion and that never entered my mind.
Basically I didn't get it up and it totally turned her off me at that point so I just left. While I was getting ready to leave she told me she had been abused as a child and that's why she's a sex addict which I suppose explains some of the odd things I picked up.
This has left me wondering what will I do if that happens next time and I'm a little worried.
I'm going to make sure I'm in a much more dominant frame next time so this doesn't happen again.
So, say you're getting hot and heavy with a woman. Would it be considered odd to start rubbing your d1ck before you actually start going at it to help in getting hard?
Would this weird her out?
Or am I just worrying about nothing and this was simply due to the strange situation I was in?