So I have jury duty soon and was wondering would it hurt trying to talk to women there or around the area during lunch and such and the Jury pool waiting room? I mean I'm at the point now where I want to start hitting on women more IRL, especially when it's so dismal around here to begin with. Is that just a bad idea due to possible contempt of court, arrest, etc for misconduct?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Jury Duty next week
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
2Rocky
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Try reading the articles in Maxim if the June 2016 edition doesn't have the pages stuck together....
https://www.maxim.com/maxim-man/jury-duty-flirting-2016-01
https://www.maxim.com/maxim-man/jury-duty-flirting-2016-01
RickTheToad
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Seriously? In court? Are you for real?
Not worth a possible contempt fine or arrest?
RickTheToad
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Let's see. Cops all around you. Cameras all around you. People not wanting to be there. Do you think this is a wise decision?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
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That won't happen if you tell them first that you are so distracted by the beautiful women that you cannot pay attention well enough to fairly judge the guilt or innocence of the defendant. Then they pretty much have to let you off the jury.
Think of it this way. With all the cameras these days, if one were to be arrested for that I'm pretty sure it would at least make the local news just due to the funny nature of it. what would people think of you if they saw you on TV for that? Good publicity lol.
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Now I know you are a troll
RickTheToad
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I think, with a lot of the posts you list here, you need professional help or are just posting for attention.
Do you worry about #metoo these days? Btw if you own a business, or in a position in power and accused of sexual harassment and it becomes known does that basically kill you with women and make you like herpes to them?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.