“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jumping in the deep end

Mr_rogers

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Hey everyone, just a quick question.

I have an opportunity to go to a couple bars with a couple good friends of mine who are a lot better with social stuff than I am. So I ask has anyone who was still fairly new to the DJ game ever tried just putting their fears aside and jumping right into the social scene by, say, going to a club, or a bar with friends looking to meet women? If so, is it a good way to learn, or is it just setting yourself up for failure?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pathgen

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If you want to get better at social situations you need to isolate yourself in a cave and meditate. No friends or women just you and some candles. So i think your answer is no don't go to bars with friends to meet girls >.>
 

Mr_rogers

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Pathgen said:
If you want to get better at social situations you need to isolate yourself in a cave and meditate. No friends or women just you and some candles. So i think your answer is no don't go to bars with friends to meet girls >.>
Heh. Point taken. Thanks!
 

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Drink.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oakraiderz2 said:
It takes about half a beer to get me feeling tipsy because the alcohol reacts with a medication I take. Not to mention that I sorta become a douchebag when I'm drunk... but we'll see.
 

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Jumping in the deep end is the way to go. Unless you have heart problems and the water is freezing cold. Then your heart might stop and you could die. The lesson is: Go to a club with your friends and observe them. The best way to learn is to observe people who are good at it. However the women there aren't usually relationship material if that's what you're looking for. Oh and exercise for a healthy heart.
 
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