"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Judo

Punisha

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So im gonna start getting some judo lessons in about 2 weeks. Anyone here does judo? Any real life aplications? Body/mind benefits? Any kind of info would be good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Inside Man

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You can learn some good throws, a few submissions, how to fall correctly which is very important, how to use someone's bodyweight/strength against them. My favorite throw is from judo, the head and arm, but it is also used in other grappling sports, I learned it in wrestling.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WORKEROUTER

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Judo is great. More practical would be wrestling and no gi jiu-jitsu.
 

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WORKEROUTER said:
Judo is great. More practical would be wrestling and no gi jiu-jitsu.
modern judo wont give you a good ground game. it will teach you how to throw though.

judo is much more applicable in real life than in mma like bjj is much less aplicable in real life than it is in mma.

the bjj thing was visible on the drunk fight in the ultimate fighter last season where the guy pulled an armbar and just got his head spiked against the concrete. mats make bjj more applicable than it really is.

same with modern judo. being thrown onto a mat doesnt hurt that badly. being judo thrown onto concrete can kill you.

the mats in the ufc also make striking less applicable than it is in real life. theyre really squishy and hard to balance on. not to mention they get very slippery. so its hard to get leverage for your kicks and punches. in real life on concrete, its not. in real life a striker and wrestler/ judoka > bjj even though bjj > judoka/ wrestler and striker in mma.
 
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