"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Judo

Punisha

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So im gonna start getting some judo lessons in about 2 weeks. Anyone here does judo? Any real life aplications? Body/mind benefits? Any kind of info would be good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Inside Man

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You can learn some good throws, a few submissions, how to fall correctly which is very important, how to use someone's bodyweight/strength against them. My favorite throw is from judo, the head and arm, but it is also used in other grappling sports, I learned it in wrestling.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WORKEROUTER

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Judo is great. More practical would be wrestling and no gi jiu-jitsu.
 

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WORKEROUTER said:
Judo is great. More practical would be wrestling and no gi jiu-jitsu.
modern judo wont give you a good ground game. it will teach you how to throw though.

judo is much more applicable in real life than in mma like bjj is much less aplicable in real life than it is in mma.

the bjj thing was visible on the drunk fight in the ultimate fighter last season where the guy pulled an armbar and just got his head spiked against the concrete. mats make bjj more applicable than it really is.

same with modern judo. being thrown onto a mat doesnt hurt that badly. being judo thrown onto concrete can kill you.

the mats in the ufc also make striking less applicable than it is in real life. theyre really squishy and hard to balance on. not to mention they get very slippery. so its hard to get leverage for your kicks and punches. in real life on concrete, its not. in real life a striker and wrestler/ judoka > bjj even though bjj > judoka/ wrestler and striker in mma.
 
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