“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Often times on these forums I seen people being bashed left and right, not saying its good not saying its bad, its just that I ironic that i dont like to get bashed but i'm always quick to bash somebody else, its human nature, just a thought on mind, anyone care to explain the science of this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You suck... ;)

Most people who bash others are insecure and it makes them feel better, it's as simple as that. It's the same way in real life. I can't go anywhere with my friends without hearing them constantly talking about other people. I also noticed girls are even worse, constantly bashing other girls or even guys behind their backs. It makes me sick. It makes me wonder what they talk about behind my back.
 

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The way I take it, these forums aren't really meant to be as 'understanding' as they are helpful.

It doesn't really matter in the long run. Most of the guys on here learn their sh!t the hard way in the end. Our objective is to prevent them from the obvious train wreck they get themselves into.

If I'm asking for advice on a woman, I'd rather receive brutally honest answers as opposed to milked answers in which you really don't learn a lot. That's what sets sosuave apart from a lot of other forums.

Sure, some guys have some pent up anger in them and release it on others, and for them.. I feel sorry. However, I feel as if most of the posters on here don't post in anger because they want to, but because they feel passionate about hardships they've went through and in turn don't want to see others go through them.
 

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The thing is, when you ask for advice about a particular situation in your life on this forum, you need to be specific. Unfortunately, if your post is too long, most people want bother reading it.

Keep in mind that sosuave.com has a lot of helpful articles. I think we can all see a little bit of ourselves in some of them.
 

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imaginemypotential said:
Often times on these forums I seen people being bashed left and right, not saying its good not saying its bad, its just that I ironic that i dont like to get bashed but i'm always quick to bash somebody else, its human nature, just a thought on mind, anyone care to explain the science of this?
Well we do have some idiots on these forums. Such a thing is inevitable when a site like this grows.

Maybe you should focus on the regular threads.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i just trying to figure out why ppl does this? maybe its just social conditioning i dont know lol, but all the post are great answers so far
 
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