"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Often times on these forums I seen people being bashed left and right, not saying its good not saying its bad, its just that I ironic that i dont like to get bashed but i'm always quick to bash somebody else, its human nature, just a thought on mind, anyone care to explain the science of this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You suck... ;)

Most people who bash others are insecure and it makes them feel better, it's as simple as that. It's the same way in real life. I can't go anywhere with my friends without hearing them constantly talking about other people. I also noticed girls are even worse, constantly bashing other girls or even guys behind their backs. It makes me sick. It makes me wonder what they talk about behind my back.
 
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The way I take it, these forums aren't really meant to be as 'understanding' as they are helpful.

It doesn't really matter in the long run. Most of the guys on here learn their sh!t the hard way in the end. Our objective is to prevent them from the obvious train wreck they get themselves into.

If I'm asking for advice on a woman, I'd rather receive brutally honest answers as opposed to milked answers in which you really don't learn a lot. That's what sets sosuave apart from a lot of other forums.

Sure, some guys have some pent up anger in them and release it on others, and for them.. I feel sorry. However, I feel as if most of the posters on here don't post in anger because they want to, but because they feel passionate about hardships they've went through and in turn don't want to see others go through them.
 
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The thing is, when you ask for advice about a particular situation in your life on this forum, you need to be specific. Unfortunately, if your post is too long, most people want bother reading it.

Keep in mind that sosuave.com has a lot of helpful articles. I think we can all see a little bit of ourselves in some of them.
 
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imaginemypotential said:
Often times on these forums I seen people being bashed left and right, not saying its good not saying its bad, its just that I ironic that i dont like to get bashed but i'm always quick to bash somebody else, its human nature, just a thought on mind, anyone care to explain the science of this?
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Well we do have some idiots on these forums. Such a thing is inevitable when a site like this grows.

Maybe you should focus on the regular threads.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i just trying to figure out why ppl does this? maybe its just social conditioning i dont know lol, but all the post are great answers so far
 
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