"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Often times on these forums I seen people being bashed left and right, not saying its good not saying its bad, its just that I ironic that i dont like to get bashed but i'm always quick to bash somebody else, its human nature, just a thought on mind, anyone care to explain the science of this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You suck... ;)

Most people who bash others are insecure and it makes them feel better, it's as simple as that. It's the same way in real life. I can't go anywhere with my friends without hearing them constantly talking about other people. I also noticed girls are even worse, constantly bashing other girls or even guys behind their backs. It makes me sick. It makes me wonder what they talk about behind my back.
 

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The way I take it, these forums aren't really meant to be as 'understanding' as they are helpful.

It doesn't really matter in the long run. Most of the guys on here learn their sh!t the hard way in the end. Our objective is to prevent them from the obvious train wreck they get themselves into.

If I'm asking for advice on a woman, I'd rather receive brutally honest answers as opposed to milked answers in which you really don't learn a lot. That's what sets sosuave apart from a lot of other forums.

Sure, some guys have some pent up anger in them and release it on others, and for them.. I feel sorry. However, I feel as if most of the posters on here don't post in anger because they want to, but because they feel passionate about hardships they've went through and in turn don't want to see others go through them.
 

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The thing is, when you ask for advice about a particular situation in your life on this forum, you need to be specific. Unfortunately, if your post is too long, most people want bother reading it.

Keep in mind that sosuave.com has a lot of helpful articles. I think we can all see a little bit of ourselves in some of them.
 

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imaginemypotential said:
Often times on these forums I seen people being bashed left and right, not saying its good not saying its bad, its just that I ironic that i dont like to get bashed but i'm always quick to bash somebody else, its human nature, just a thought on mind, anyone care to explain the science of this?
Well we do have some idiots on these forums. Such a thing is inevitable when a site like this grows.

Maybe you should focus on the regular threads.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i just trying to figure out why ppl does this? maybe its just social conditioning i dont know lol, but all the post are great answers so far
 
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