The way I take it, these forums aren't really meant to be as 'understanding' as they are helpful.
It doesn't really matter in the long run. Most of the guys on here learn their sh!t the hard way in the end. Our objective is to prevent them from the obvious train wreck they get themselves into.
If I'm asking for advice on a woman, I'd rather receive brutally honest answers as opposed to milked answers in which you really don't learn a lot. That's what sets sosuave apart from a lot of other forums.
Sure, some guys have some pent up anger in them and release it on others, and for them.. I feel sorry. However, I feel as if most of the posters on here don't post in anger because they want to, but because they feel passionate about hardships they've went through and in turn don't want to see others go through them.