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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Judge my Myspace
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Krak
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Here's my opinion; Myspace is gay. period.
BlackAccord
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Krak and Luke, shut up.
Eli,
First the positive:
-Your page has a decent theme to it. I like the borders and boxes. Dark colors, all good confident designs.
Negative:
-I have to say that it's kind of childish. You have a hardcore rap, fighting, wrestling thing going on but yet have lines like, "call george foreman cuz i be selllinn errbody GriLLZ" and a video that says "**** and balls". Seems a tad bit off balance.
-The what you should weigh thing just basically tells people that your too skinny. It says you should weigh 125 but you wrestle at 112. Your not a big guy, don't brag about being very very skinny. (I was as well, don't worry as it will pass.)
-"anyone got a band-aid cause im cut". Come on bro, are you serious? Every jackass on myspace has a picture of them with no shirt on. If you had no shirt on with you doing something or something less intentional of purposely showing your 112lb body off to people then it would be cool, but blatently having a picture up of you with no shirt on, flexing...trying too hard? too ****y? etc.
I have a few more suggestions, but mull over these for a while. Good luck man.
Eli,
First the positive:
-Your page has a decent theme to it. I like the borders and boxes. Dark colors, all good confident designs.
Negative:
-I have to say that it's kind of childish. You have a hardcore rap, fighting, wrestling thing going on but yet have lines like, "call george foreman cuz i be selllinn errbody GriLLZ" and a video that says "**** and balls". Seems a tad bit off balance.
-The what you should weigh thing just basically tells people that your too skinny. It says you should weigh 125 but you wrestle at 112. Your not a big guy, don't brag about being very very skinny. (I was as well, don't worry as it will pass.)
-"anyone got a band-aid cause im cut". Come on bro, are you serious? Every jackass on myspace has a picture of them with no shirt on. If you had no shirt on with you doing something or something less intentional of purposely showing your 112lb body off to people then it would be cool, but blatently having a picture up of you with no shirt on, flexing...trying too hard? too ****y? etc.
I have a few more suggestions, but mull over these for a while. Good luck man.
hey man, just have fun wit it. it looks like a good myspace so dont worry bout it too much.
and ya myspace is kinda gay but everyone gets one eventually. i got one but i only had like 2 pictures in a year and everyone tells me to change it but im too lazy...fuk, some people hav like 20 and they keep changin their pic like everyday. some people love themselves a lil too much..
and ya myspace is kinda gay but everyone gets one eventually. i got one but i only had like 2 pictures in a year and everyone tells me to change it but im too lazy...fuk, some people hav like 20 and they keep changin their pic like everyday. some people love themselves a lil too much..
we all eat food
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i changed the headline and i jsut try to meet people and stay in touch with old friends
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
dannowillbookem
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god put way less effort into it man. mines simple, no backgrounds and crap and i gotta goofy lil code that cuts down the stuff thats suppsoed to be stuck there. eitherway, take all the **** out of it and just make it hi im bob well im sexy alright bye then. oh and i think the eyebrows could use a trimming, its a hard thing to bring up so i just thought i'd toss it out there.
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wel you definitely changed your look a lot for the better. when you first joined this site and showed pics of yourself everyone thought they were hopelessly ugly but you've managed to transform yourself into a decent looking guy
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can i get your sisters number? (joking)
Locster
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i tought this was your myspace: http://www.myspace.com/arthur_king
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
we all eat food
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i did? when did i post that? but thats def not me at all
BBX
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^i live near you
Skilla_Staz
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You worry about your myspace? I figure as long as I like the way it looks. I'm good. I don't have any of that "about me" sh*t. Yes, I do have those stupid flexing pictures, but what can i say? I'm sexy :rock:
Locster
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=89823we all eat food said:i did? when did i post that? but thats def not me at all
NO MORE MYSPACE THREADS. CHRIST.Krak said:Here's my opinion; Myspace is gay. period.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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