we all eat food
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Judge my Myspace
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Krak
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Here's my opinion; Myspace is gay. period.
BlackAccord
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Krak and Luke, shut up.
Eli,
First the positive:
-Your page has a decent theme to it. I like the borders and boxes. Dark colors, all good confident designs.
Negative:
-I have to say that it's kind of childish. You have a hardcore rap, fighting, wrestling thing going on but yet have lines like, "call george foreman cuz i be selllinn errbody GriLLZ" and a video that says "**** and balls". Seems a tad bit off balance.
-The what you should weigh thing just basically tells people that your too skinny. It says you should weigh 125 but you wrestle at 112. Your not a big guy, don't brag about being very very skinny. (I was as well, don't worry as it will pass.)
-"anyone got a band-aid cause im cut". Come on bro, are you serious? Every jackass on myspace has a picture of them with no shirt on. If you had no shirt on with you doing something or something less intentional of purposely showing your 112lb body off to people then it would be cool, but blatently having a picture up of you with no shirt on, flexing...trying too hard? too ****y? etc.
I have a few more suggestions, but mull over these for a while. Good luck man.
Eli,
First the positive:
-Your page has a decent theme to it. I like the borders and boxes. Dark colors, all good confident designs.
Negative:
-I have to say that it's kind of childish. You have a hardcore rap, fighting, wrestling thing going on but yet have lines like, "call george foreman cuz i be selllinn errbody GriLLZ" and a video that says "**** and balls". Seems a tad bit off balance.
-The what you should weigh thing just basically tells people that your too skinny. It says you should weigh 125 but you wrestle at 112. Your not a big guy, don't brag about being very very skinny. (I was as well, don't worry as it will pass.)
-"anyone got a band-aid cause im cut". Come on bro, are you serious? Every jackass on myspace has a picture of them with no shirt on. If you had no shirt on with you doing something or something less intentional of purposely showing your 112lb body off to people then it would be cool, but blatently having a picture up of you with no shirt on, flexing...trying too hard? too ****y? etc.
I have a few more suggestions, but mull over these for a while. Good luck man.
hey man, just have fun wit it. it looks like a good myspace so dont worry bout it too much.
and ya myspace is kinda gay but everyone gets one eventually. i got one but i only had like 2 pictures in a year and everyone tells me to change it but im too lazy...fuk, some people hav like 20 and they keep changin their pic like everyday. some people love themselves a lil too much..
and ya myspace is kinda gay but everyone gets one eventually. i got one but i only had like 2 pictures in a year and everyone tells me to change it but im too lazy...fuk, some people hav like 20 and they keep changin their pic like everyday. some people love themselves a lil too much..
we all eat food
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i changed the headline and i jsut try to meet people and stay in touch with old friends
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dannowillbookem
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god put way less effort into it man. mines simple, no backgrounds and crap and i gotta goofy lil code that cuts down the stuff thats suppsoed to be stuck there. eitherway, take all the **** out of it and just make it hi im bob well im sexy alright bye then. oh and i think the eyebrows could use a trimming, its a hard thing to bring up so i just thought i'd toss it out there.
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wel you definitely changed your look a lot for the better. when you first joined this site and showed pics of yourself everyone thought they were hopelessly ugly but you've managed to transform yourself into a decent looking guy
don juan jr
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can i get your sisters number? (joking)
Locster
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i tought this was your myspace: http://www.myspace.com/arthur_king
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
we all eat food
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i did? when did i post that? but thats def not me at all
BBX
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^i live near you
Skilla_Staz
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You worry about your myspace? I figure as long as I like the way it looks. I'm good. I don't have any of that "about me" sh*t. Yes, I do have those stupid flexing pictures, but what can i say? I'm sexy :rock:
Locster
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=89823we all eat food said:i did? when did i post that? but thats def not me at all
NO MORE MYSPACE THREADS. CHRIST.Krak said:Here's my opinion; Myspace is gay. period.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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