"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here's my opinion; Myspace is gay. period.
 

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Krak and Luke, shut up.

Eli,

First the positive:
-Your page has a decent theme to it. I like the borders and boxes. Dark colors, all good confident designs.

Negative:
-I have to say that it's kind of childish. You have a hardcore rap, fighting, wrestling thing going on but yet have lines like, "call george foreman cuz i be selllinn errbody GriLLZ" and a video that says "**** and balls". Seems a tad bit off balance.
-The what you should weigh thing just basically tells people that your too skinny. It says you should weigh 125 but you wrestle at 112. Your not a big guy, don't brag about being very very skinny. (I was as well, don't worry as it will pass.)
-"anyone got a band-aid cause im cut". Come on bro, are you serious? Every jackass on myspace has a picture of them with no shirt on. If you had no shirt on with you doing something or something less intentional of purposely showing your 112lb body off to people then it would be cool, but blatently having a picture up of you with no shirt on, flexing...trying too hard? too ****y? etc.

I have a few more suggestions, but mull over these for a while. Good luck man.
 

i am me

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hey man, just have fun wit it. it looks like a good myspace so dont worry bout it too much.

and ya myspace is kinda gay but everyone gets one eventually. i got one but i only had like 2 pictures in a year and everyone tells me to change it but im too lazy...fuk, some people hav like 20 and they keep changin their pic like everyday. some people love themselves a lil too much..
 

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i changed the headline and i jsut try to meet people and stay in touch with old friends
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannowillbookem

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god put way less effort into it man. mines simple, no backgrounds and crap and i gotta goofy lil code that cuts down the stuff thats suppsoed to be stuck there. eitherway, take all the **** out of it and just make it hi im bob well im sexy alright bye then. oh and i think the eyebrows could use a trimming, its a hard thing to bring up so i just thought i'd toss it out there.
 

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Not a fan of the excessive posing.

A bit too cluttered, simple is key. Just go through and get rid of the unnecessary stuff.

Or spend less time on MySpace.
 
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wel you definitely changed your look a lot for the better. when you first joined this site and showed pics of yourself everyone thought they were hopelessly ugly but you've managed to transform yourself into a decent looking guy
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You worry about your myspace? I figure as long as I like the way it looks. I'm good. I don't have any of that "about me" sh*t. Yes, I do have those stupid flexing pictures, but what can i say? I'm sexy :rock:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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