"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Jovan Belcher suicide
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bible_Belt
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The Chiefs are scared to say anything nice about a man who murdered a woman, because then they draw the wrath of the feminist protestors, plus the NFL is trying so hard to recruit female fans (October pink). That sucks for all of the players who really are grieving over his death; it's as though the NFL is not allowed to acknowledge their grief.
The murdered girlfriend had a 3-month old baby. She would have been a prime candidate for post-partum depression, which may have been why they were fighting. He also had at least one head injury on record and then played the next week. That was a few years ago, though. Poor impulse control is a major side effect of the NFL head trauma disease; that's why so many ex-players commit suicide. In this case, the impulse he couldn't control was the one to shoot his girlfriend.
The murdered girlfriend had a 3-month old baby. She would have been a prime candidate for post-partum depression, which may have been why they were fighting. He also had at least one head injury on record and then played the next week. That was a few years ago, though. Poor impulse control is a major side effect of the NFL head trauma disease; that's why so many ex-players commit suicide. In this case, the impulse he couldn't control was the one to shoot his girlfriend.
Big surprise....none of the mainstream media want to discuss the fact that the girl friend may have provoked jovan to anger..
I guess its important to note that to mainstream perceptions women are angelic creatures who never provoke men :crackup: ...oh right 'alpha' men can never be moved by outside forces
apparently the girl friend threatened to take the child away multiple times and stayed out late frequently...frankly 99% of NFL/NBA wives/gfs are trash cans on legs
I guess its important to note that to mainstream perceptions women are angelic creatures who never provoke men :crackup: ...oh right 'alpha' men can never be moved by outside forces
apparently the girl friend threatened to take the child away multiple times and stayed out late frequently...frankly 99% of NFL/NBA wives/gfs are trash cans on legs
Rollo Tomassi
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Whenever I read about something like this my first thought is, what was this guy's mental schema with regards to how he dealt with women in his life? Just like Junior Seau another girl-world casualty:
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/spor...eau-suicide-last-days-sleep-issues/55316506/1
And before you throw the traumatic football brain injury line at me:
http://articles.latimes.com/2012/aug/21/local/la-me-0821-junior-seau-20120821
Or Steve McNair
http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=newsarchive&sid=ayWaNQToDqcs
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/spor...eau-suicide-last-days-sleep-issues/55316506/1
And before you throw the traumatic football brain injury line at me:
http://articles.latimes.com/2012/aug/21/local/la-me-0821-junior-seau-20120821
Or Steve McNair
http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=newsarchive&sid=ayWaNQToDqcs
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I wont' comment on this until they autopsy comes back. though I agree with zekko.. i'm generally anti kill GF
Bible_Belt
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The story this morning is that the girlfriend went to a 'Trey Songz' concert Friday night and then to the afterparty with her friends. He didn't want her to go out, which is what they were fighting over. Her friends are saying that Belcher was obsessed with the idea that she must be cheating on him with the Trey Songz guy. It sounds a little like paranoid schizophrenia to me, and an increased risk of schizophrenia has been linked to head trauma.
oh come on...no way am I condoning him shooting her or even hitting her, but 3 months pregnant and out partying, he thinks she might be cheating, 'friends' arent going to say she was taking this singers guy load down her neck are they? diagnosing him with PS because of this incident???Bible_Belt said:
he obviously had bit wrong with his head to even contemplate shooting her but in the coming weeks/months, the truth will filter out about the background
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CNN is blaming MANLINESS for the murder / suicide.
http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Journalism/2012/12/03/CNN-culture-of-manliness-Belcher
http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Journalism/2012/12/03/CNN-culture-of-manliness-Belcher
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
http://deadspin.com/5964917/friend-...on-domestic-tensions-played-role-in-shootingsbetheman said:
Dude was drinking heavily every night, abusing pills, had a head injury. I'd want to get my three-month old baby out of there too. She may have been a typical immature 22 year old, but I don't blame her for leaving him, and she didn't deserve to die.
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I wonder if he was on booze and pills when he shot her 9 times. Booze and pills can make you do some crazy things. What kind of pills were they?Findog said:
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The b!tch used him and then cheated on him, and it drove him crazy? Maybe she is BPD. Most likely this is it.betheman said:
Bible_Belt
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Belcher was involved in at least two instances of fighting with a woman while at the University of Maine to the extent that the campus police came.
http://www.usatoday.com/story/sport...e-report-campus-punch-window-cut-arm/1744281/
I also thought the quote from this reuters article to be interesting. If Belcher had always been on steroids, that would explain his amazing athletic prowess and the way he worked his way up to being an NFL starter, although I don't know how easy it is to beat NFL drug testing.
http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/12/04/us-nfl-chiefs-violence-idUSBRE8B305U20121204
Don Hooton, who founded the Taylor Hooton Foundation to promote steroids education in 2004, seven months after his son, Taylor, committed suicide following his use of anabolic steroids, suspects doping.
"Every time I hear a story like this, my mind runs immediately to anabolic steroids," Hooton said. "Not necessarily to the exclusion of anything else, but because anabolic steroids can affect the mind in these crazy ways.
"I hope when they do the autopsy on this young man, that they look for these substances because it's possible that what we saw was 'Roid Rage'"
http://www.usatoday.com/story/sport...e-report-campus-punch-window-cut-arm/1744281/
I also thought the quote from this reuters article to be interesting. If Belcher had always been on steroids, that would explain his amazing athletic prowess and the way he worked his way up to being an NFL starter, although I don't know how easy it is to beat NFL drug testing.
http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/12/04/us-nfl-chiefs-violence-idUSBRE8B305U20121204
Don Hooton, who founded the Taylor Hooton Foundation to promote steroids education in 2004, seven months after his son, Taylor, committed suicide following his use of anabolic steroids, suspects doping.
"Every time I hear a story like this, my mind runs immediately to anabolic steroids," Hooton said. "Not necessarily to the exclusion of anything else, but because anabolic steroids can affect the mind in these crazy ways.
"I hope when they do the autopsy on this young man, that they look for these substances because it's possible that what we saw was 'Roid Rage'"
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
First thing I thought was "Junior Seau."
While I'm generally in the kill-the-girlfriend camp, in this case, it would have been better for the man if he just left her.
I couldn't care less what would be better for the slvt-wh0re. And yes, the penalty for a woman cheating should be death. How would that be unfair to men? Men always feel like killing themselves when their women cheat on them. Did you know that adultery is a felony in the Philippines that is frequently punished by prison time and loss of rights to home and children?
(There is no such thing as being "fair" to women. All men are always trying to fvck all women, and all women are in constant competition with each other. So don't kid yourself. No one is trying to "help" a woman.)
While I'm generally in the kill-the-girlfriend camp, in this case, it would have been better for the man if he just left her.
I couldn't care less what would be better for the slvt-wh0re. And yes, the penalty for a woman cheating should be death. How would that be unfair to men? Men always feel like killing themselves when their women cheat on them. Did you know that adultery is a felony in the Philippines that is frequently punished by prison time and loss of rights to home and children?
(There is no such thing as being "fair" to women. All men are always trying to fvck all women, and all women are in constant competition with each other. So don't kid yourself. No one is trying to "help" a woman.)
Bible_Belt
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http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/20...12/04/jovan-belcher/index.html?sct=nfl_t12_a0
According to a law enforcement official close to the investigation -- and contrary to published reports -- Belcher spent Friday night "partying" with another woman at the Power and Light District, a bar area in downtown K.C. He returned home between 6:30 and 7 a.m., at which point he and Perkins argued.
According to a law enforcement official close to the investigation -- and contrary to published reports -- Belcher spent Friday night "partying" with another woman at the Power and Light District, a bar area in downtown K.C. He returned home between 6:30 and 7 a.m., at which point he and Perkins argued.