"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Journal(lies oro friendzoned?)

Bwilled

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ok so i like this girl alot and i knew her since we were born. She's very picky about the guys she likes and she will never date anyone that doesnt go to church (i go to her church lucky me). For the last 2-3 months ive just started to like her and thats when she through some signs at me. (asked me to sit next to her, wrap her arm around mine and lay her head on my shoulder, one time we just leaned our heads on each others shoulder and just hummed some songs.) My friends think that she likes me but ever since one of my friends said that i liked some1 else from my school she has been avoiding me. now she hardly even talks to me. I was told that she thinks i like her (which i do) and now she still not talking to me as she was before. when she does talk to me its mainly just smiles and stuff not really full blown conversations. yesterday my friend asked her if she would ever go out with me and she said no because she sees me as a cousin or brother :confused: :confused: but she said she would think about it. and im wondering if she was lying to the friend or if i was friendzoned :nervous: :nervous:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bwilled

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i cant just kiss her like that.... im a freking punk and shes one of my good friends and i dont wana ruin that...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bwilled

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so the only way to go is kiss her... do i just walk up to her and kiss her?
 

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You guys are good. Good mindset to have.
Bwilled, risk something or you won't find out. If she's really like one of your best friends and you don't want to risk ruining things, go for other girls.
 

Bwilled

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ok thanks ill make that risk in due time not to long though and i will tell you how it goes
 
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