"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Journal(lies oro friendzoned?)

Bwilled

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ok so i like this girl alot and i knew her since we were born. She's very picky about the guys she likes and she will never date anyone that doesnt go to church (i go to her church lucky me). For the last 2-3 months ive just started to like her and thats when she through some signs at me. (asked me to sit next to her, wrap her arm around mine and lay her head on my shoulder, one time we just leaned our heads on each others shoulder and just hummed some songs.) My friends think that she likes me but ever since one of my friends said that i liked some1 else from my school she has been avoiding me. now she hardly even talks to me. I was told that she thinks i like her (which i do) and now she still not talking to me as she was before. when she does talk to me its mainly just smiles and stuff not really full blown conversations. yesterday my friend asked her if she would ever go out with me and she said no because she sees me as a cousin or brother :confused: :confused: but she said she would think about it. and im wondering if she was lying to the friend or if i was friendzoned :nervous: :nervous:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bwilled

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i cant just kiss her like that.... im a freking punk and shes one of my good friends and i dont wana ruin that...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bwilled

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so the only way to go is kiss her... do i just walk up to her and kiss her?
 

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You guys are good. Good mindset to have.
Bwilled, risk something or you won't find out. If she's really like one of your best friends and you don't want to risk ruining things, go for other girls.
 

Bwilled

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ok thanks ill make that risk in due time not to long though and i will tell you how it goes
 
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